What is it about love that gets us women just stupid over? I mean...as much as we say we love being single and don't need a man in our lives to be happy, we are constantly fixated on cheesy love story chick flicks.
No matter how over a guy I am or how much fun I just had with my girlfriend on our "night out"...I still get a lil' bummed when I hear a male escort tell a beautiful redhead "I think I'd miss you even if we'd never met"...Name that movie. "Why can't a guy say that to me?" I think, as I sit on my couch with a bowl of Cookie N Cream BlueBell ice cream...The slightest inclination of a romantic gesture in a movie makes me melt...what the hell? Does this just mean I'm a hopeless romantic or just a fool??? I don't fall for those lines in real life so why let myself get all gushy over a movie?
Guys are not how they are in those movies and that alone screws with us! Men nowadays don't know how to chase a woman! They just move onto the next one that comes along because it's easier and less work. In the movies, they jump through hurdles, almost get hit by cars because they're running across traffic to catch a cab to the airport to stop the plane that the woman they can't live without just got on...whatever!
Why aren't there any movies out there that give us the chance to show a man's weaknesses? I'd love to see something like "He's Just Not That Into You"...but from a woman's perspective and our side of the story. I truly do find it interesting, the polar opposite ways men and women view certain situations in dating. A lot of times, as I've stated before that, just because we may seem that we're smitten for a guy...we're still a little iffy about him and he probably annoys us a little. Its mainly the "idea" of what could possibly come one day in the future that makes us smitten. As we're sort of into them and just honestly going day by day with the relationship, they're telling their buddies how much they've got us wrapped around their finger...
Its fascinating I tell ya!
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